You thought you were getting the fairytale when you got married.  You thought your relationship would be different from the other married couples you had seen.  You and your spouse would stay just as in love for the rest of your lives.  But lately, you’ve been struggling to communicate.  It just seems like it’s always negative. Dishes, the house, the kids, groceries…every day feels like a battle and nothing seems to be working between you and your partner. The only time you notice each other is when the other person has done something wrong. Again. You fight and argue about all the details of living day to day but you aren’t fighting about what really matters.  You feel the two of you have grown apart and do not know if you can create a shared vision for your future.  You remember the days when you looked at your partner over a romantic meal, dreaming about what your future would hold. Now, you’re lucky if you look at each other at all. Or worse, the glances have gone from loving to side-eye and eye-rolls.

I can help you discover what you really need and how to fight FOR your relationship — not about your relationship.

I will help you work on healing past hurts so that you can truly see your partner and be truly seen in return. You’ll begin to understand how the relationships that predate your marriage are showing up in the arguments you have with your partner now. You’ll see how the difficult things that you’ve both survived in your past can either bring you together more intimately or drive a wedge between you. I will help you to remember that you’re on the same team, and help you recreate that safe haven away from all the craziness in the world. A place to be truly, intimately seen, heard, and loved. Your relationship is not doomed… you can rediscover the happiness and security that your relationship once offered. I’m passionate about helping you restore the passion to your marriage.

I can help you and your partner reconnect through the messiness of life. Most couples wait 6 or more years before getting help with their relationship. Don’t suffer any longer.  Call or Email me today.